Life In a Notebook

“Whatever happens in your life, happens for good”
“Whatever you are going through, it is definitely teaching you something”
And what not.
Damn, if we get money every time people say these lines whenever we are in trouble, we’ll be rich.
They are right, but also not fully right.. aah, i don’t know but personally, i hate when people say this, i mean, the concept of the occurrence of an inconvenience or any heartbreaking experience should find a better cover than it occurring for the sake of “learning”.
Are you saying, bad things happen to good people so that they learn????
Ugh, i can go on and on about how annoying it can get, but again, I’m here to focus on another outlook .

Yes, life becomes a little easy when you focus on the lesson. It’s the last thing you want to do, but a thing you should definitely do and if we look closely, maybe the incidents are teaching us something.

No, they are not always about us, the conclusion that ” I’m the dumbest person alive” or “omyg, i shouldn’t have done or said that” shouldn’t be the only constant realisations, if they are for you, then you might want to analyse the situations again, tough times teach you a lot about other people, the people you should keep and the ones you should let go.

Look, self realisation is very important and maybe yes, you should have reacted or done things differently,but as humans we are bound to make mistakes ,but it doesn’t mean we should ignore how the other person played a role in all this.
Whenever a situation arise, it does teaches us alot about the other person aswell.

Now about the earth shattering experiences…they will break you, will make you cry, you will lose self confidence and what not, but i really wish, you don’t give up on the hope.
Hope that everything will be better, hope that everything shall pass ,because that’s all you can do.

There will be times where your rant goes to waste or doesn’t even make sense because you know, nobody will get what you’re going through, it’s not their fault too, it’s just.. like that. Or worse, you just stop sharing and shut the door to your heart saying, “it’s fine, I’m used to it”
Fam,I’m sorry if you’ve ever gone through this or are currently in this situation. I’m so sorry if all you do in a situation like this is smile because you can’t control anything.

During this time you will question a lot of things, “yourself” topping the list for sure, but whenever you do, i hope you’re there for yourself , you can’t be positive about any situation every time, but at least be considerate . Only you can get yourself out that pit ( like the story i had mentioned before, go read my other blogs of you haven’t till now.. self blog references are cool thing)

I can go on and on about how much you should always believe in yourself,but you know it better than I do. Self belief won’t necessarily make the situation easier, but will make you stronger that you can deal with them. Take a break if necessary, then start again. You got this, I’m proud of you!
Everything will be okay, fam.
Always here for you 🙂
My love to each one of you.